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    Friday, October 2, 2009

    And to tell you this....

    "Sorrow, sank deep inside my blood. All the ones around me, I cared for and loved" ~I Won't See You Tonight Part 1 by Avenged Sevenfold.

    quote of the day : "All females/ladies/girls are pretty no doubt about that....it's the way they carry themselves that seperates the 'ugly', bimbo and decent."

    to be honest
    everytime i use the computer,
    i dont even bother to visit my own blog.
    and i doubt no one knows...

    blahblahblah,
    anyway,
    if i feel the need to blog,
    the need to address some stuffs,
    the need to tell people about myself,
    the need to make people see from my point of view...then i'll blog! :D

    so where do i start....hmmm..okay.

    PRELIMS RESULT(s)!
    this week has been full of mixed emotions.
    there's regret, satisfied, angry and happy.
    never was there sadness found in me.
    i passed my english( C5),
    failed my maths(E8),
    passed my chemistry(c6),
    failed my Physics(D7),
    passed my S.S(B4),
    failed my history(F9),
    passed my biology(C6).
    FnN unknown.

    S.S 3rd highest in class = happy
    maths failed = regretted i didnt study for paper 1
    bio pass= happy
    comb sci pass= satisfied, just angry at physics and sci p1 results
    comb humans failed = angry at the seq marks
    english = satisfied with result.

    OVERALL= im generally satisfied with my results!
    so my aim for prelims was to get 25 for L1R4.
    what i got was 28-2 = 26.
    i guess working harder won't kill me,
    WHOO!!!
    improvement for a boy like me :DDDD

    and that's Salim's results for prelims.
    when we come back, we'll talk about human behavior and learn more about Salim..
    leave if you lazy read, stay if u wanna read...

    *beep*

    we're back with more things to look at on dont-tellthem.bs!

    WE, as HUMANS, we have feelings and emotions.
    we also have the tendency to perceive things from a different point of view.
    WE, as HUMANS, also tend to judge a situation on what they see and not what they know.

    Let's bring you to a scenario
    imagine a guy.
    he folds his arm, he has a tattoo on his forearm, he frowns and stares on the floor in the MRT.
    I look at him, i look at his arms and i tell myself what kind of a person he is..

    Salim: he must be an angry man. maybe he is one of those gangster in a gang. better not smile and look at him.

    common judgement by all?

    but what if you know this guy mention above,
    what if his frown shows that he is thinking about his problems..
    what if his tattoo is just a memory of a person, an event, a place...
    what if his folded arm only meant that he need a hug because of his tonnes of problem....

    we'll never know this until we approach this guy and talk to him.
    it doesnt kill to be friendly...unless you're trying to be friendly with a rapist.
    and the irony is that we can also think that that guy might be a rapist.

    what i'm trying to say is let's try to look at the bigger picture.
    try to see beyond the angle of incidence equals to....
    i mean see beyond the picture, more than what you see.
    a person smiling doesnt mean HE is happy all the time.
    a person who hears stuff about another doesnt mean HE believe in that.
    a person who stays away from a group doesnt mean HE had turn his back against them.

    at the end of the day,
    judging one's external appearance become humans most biggest mistake.
    it leads to misunderstanding between each party and the only way to resolve it is to....

    APPROACH/CONFRONT/TALK ABOUT IT/ASK/TELL.

    but some people dont like this,
    some people dont practice ths,
    and hell some people dont even bother to settle the problem.

    however, it's the best solution ever.
    because when you approach the problem and find the root of the problem,
    only then a misunderstanding/an impression of someone can be solved or change.

    believe me,
    it's based on a true story.
    i witnessed, experienced it this month of Syawal.
    how a misunderstanding turned a relationship sour.
    and how an approach strenghten the relationship again.

    and so...i took along time to write this.
    the enthusiasm level was like this:
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    and i rather people approach me if you have a problem with me.
    because i tend to ASSUME things.

    MORAL OF THE STORY: DONT ASSUME as ASSUMING MAKES AN ASS OF U AND ME.

    this episode will continue later...

    CIAO!

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